Unscripted Lessons on Life, Love and Singleness
It was July 4, 2019, when I was deflowered for the second time, ending my 8 years of abstinence. I know what you’re thinking, Trust me, I’ve had those same thoughts about myself, so I am not mad at you. However, I want you to hold off on judging me. I may have fallen off […]
Read MoreAllow me to reintroduce myself…. my name is Kay. I suppose that wasn’t much of a reintroduction but it’s been a minute so I felt it was needed. First things first.. where have I been? Where should I begin, I took 2018 to focus on my finances. I took myself from a credit score of […]
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Is this thing on? Hello? Can you hear me? I know, I know it’s been a long time since I’ve posted and trust me I’ve been very busy. I can’t wait to share all that has happened to me this year, next year. BUT… I almost didn’t make it. Let me tell you how it […]
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I was sitting at work eating Mexican food and something didn’t feel right. It was like I blacked out for a few seconds and couldn’t catch my breath. I sat there gasping for air not realizing what was happening to me. My mouth started to go dry and I found myself having a hard time […]
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Hey Goal Digging Friends, We’re in the second quarter of the year – how are you doing with your goals? I’m doing great. I’ve paid off some debt, I’ve increased my credit score to the mid 600s, my mortgage score is about 43 points away from where I want it to be- so I must […]
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Instead of singing can you pay my bills.. I’m singing can you achieve these goals. Well can you? Has the new year excitement already worn off? Have you been stuck in a rut? Did you even set any goals for this year? Listen, I’m here for you. I understand the importance of goal planning and […]
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I came into the new year saying how I wanted to be open and make myself available to dating. I even prepared a mock meeting conversation and went over everything I would say. Don’t call me crazy, call me prepared.
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So you made it through Thanksgiving dinner… S I N G L E. You made it through all the questions with your nosey pressed family members and you didn’t even throw back a slick comment. Well maybe one.
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bit·ter·ness- anger and disappointment at being treated unfairly; resentment.
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“May the stumbling blocks in your life become your stepping-stones”
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These are the two most used words from someone who’s really not fine. We live in a society where everyone pretends to be fine, pretends to be famous, pretends to be rich. So quite naturally when someone asks that dreaded question “How are you?”, we reply with “I’m Fine.” I’ve said it so much that […]
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I’ve been celibate going on 7 years. My decision to wait, came after 5 abortions, 7 different sexual partners including the father of my child, with whom I was in relationship with for 10 years. It wasn’t a hard decision, I just stopped. I can remember during that time in my life, I thought of […]
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Take this time, to ONE get healed from your previous relationship, TWO forgive your ex, THREE work on your inner self, FOUR love yourself and FIVE, which should-be FIRST – BE CELIBATE (if you fell off the journey).
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Have you heard of it? O-M-G! Well let me catch you up. The Bold Type is a show on Free Form and it’s about 3 friends who work at a well-known magazine company. The show is about their lives and takes place in one of the best cities ever: NEW YORK CITY! You remember the last […]
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WCW- Women Crush Woman
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I’ve seen time after time women fool themselves into thinking they are ready to date, for whatever the reason. But I’m like what makes you think that you’re ready.
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How can you continue to wait on a man? That’s a life wasted.
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When I learned that purity wasn’t just about deciding not to have sex, it changed my life.
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bit-ter: resentful or cynical, hard to bear; grievous; distressful
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