Church Girl Gone Wild: Born Again Virgin No More

August 20, 2019.Reading time 4 minutes.

It was July 4, 2019, when I was deflowered for the second time, ending my 8 years of abstinence. I know what you’re thinking, Trust me, I’ve had those same thoughts about myself, so I am not mad at you. However, I want you to hold off on judging me. I may have fallen off […]

New Series: Church Girl Gone Wild

August 20, 2019.Reading time 4 minutes.

Allow me to reintroduce myself…. my name is Kay. I suppose that wasn’t much of a reintroduction but it’s been a minute so I felt it was needed. First things first.. where have I been? Where should I begin, I took 2018 to focus on my finances. I took myself from a credit score of […]

how I almost lost my corporate job

October 31, 2018.Reading time 9 minutes.

Is this thing on? Hello? Can you hear me? I know, I know it’s been a long time since I’ve posted and trust me I’ve been very busy. I can’t wait to share all that has happened to me this year, next year. BUT… I almost didn’t make it. Let me tell you how it […]

My Very First Anxiety Attack

June 26, 2018.Reading time 4 minutes.

I was sitting at work eating Mexican food and something didn’t feel right. It was like I blacked out for a few seconds and couldn’t catch my breath. I sat there gasping for air not realizing what was happening to me. My mouth started to go dry and I found myself having a hard time […]

Ask Kay’s Goal Digging Money Challenge

April 30, 2018.Reading time 4 minutes.

Hey Goal Digging Friends, We’re in the second quarter of the year – how are you doing with your goals? I’m doing great. I’ve paid off some debt, I’ve increased my credit score to the mid 600s, my mortgage score is about 43 points away from where I want it to be- so I must […]

Goals, Goals, Goals

February 19, 2018.Reading time 5 minutes.

Instead of singing can you pay my bills.. I’m singing can you achieve these goals. Well can you? Has the new year excitement already worn off? Have you been stuck in a rut? Did you even set any goals for this year? Listen, I’m here for you. I understand the importance of goal planning and […]

I want to start dating, but it ain’t gon happen like this

January 15, 2018.Reading time 5 minutes.

I came into the new year saying how I wanted to be open and make myself available to dating. I even prepared a mock meeting conversation and went over everything I would say. Don’t call me crazy, call me prepared.

Single Girls Guide: You Made It

November 25, 2017.Reading time 1 minute.

So you made it through Thanksgiving dinner… S I N G L E. You made it through all the questions with your nosey pressed family members and you didn’t even throw back a slick comment. Well maybe one.